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Plot twist: I’m back baby.

After 17+ years, IG suspended my account.
180 days to appeal or lose everything.
20,000+ followers. Years of content. Gone.

My Facebook page with 110,000 members? Hacked and deleted in 2022.
I’ve been here before.

And here’s what I’ve learnt:
You can’t destroy someone who refuses to stay down.
I got my Instagram back within days.
New business opportunity landed during the chaos.
There is always an opportunity for growth.

I had call with my mentor @dainwalker yesterday who reminded me: in the famous words of Bruce Lee, there’s no such thing as starting over. It’s just starting.

Turns out, the universe rewards resilience with receipts.

The fight isn’t always fair. But something magical happens when you stop surrendering to the setback.
This is just another part of the story.

Let’s go 2026

AC ✨

Permission-seeking isn’t about being humble or collaborative.
It’s about being terrified.

+ Terrified that if you move without approval, you’ll get it wrong.
+ Terrified that if no one validates your vision, it must not be valid.
+ Terrified that if you claim space without consensus, you’ll be exposed.

So you keep asking.
Checking.
Softening.
Waiting.

And meanwhile, people with half your clarity are already three moves ahead.

Not because they’re more talented.
But because they stopped asking if they were allowed.

🔥 The shift:
The fastest way to sabotage your growth is to make other people the gatekeeper of your decisions.

When you need validation to move, you’re not being strategic. You’re being scared.

When you need approval to price yourself, you’re not being responsible. You’re outsourcing your self-trust.

When you need consensus to pivot, you’re not being collaborative. You’re avoiding ownership.

Remember this when you’re stalling, second guessing:

Real leaders don’t ask for permission.
They make decisions, own the outcome, and adjust as they go.

Send this to someone who needs to be reminded today.

#shadowwork #theuntamedceo #entrepreneurmindset #selftrustoverapproval #buildyourempire

💌 MONEY STORY

Your money story is a lie you were fed as a kid.

I rewired mine and built a $2M company 💰

I was told money doesn’t grow on trees.

Holding money felt wrong. Spending it? I’d break down crying because I felt like I was in trouble.

It took years to rewire this. Learning to save without hoarding. Spend without guilt. Invest without fear.

Now I run a company turning over $2M+ a year.

I’m living proof you can rewrite your money story.

So what’s the lie you’re still believing about money?

Here’s how to find your money story:

Close your eyes. Think about spending $10,000 right now. What’s the first feeling that comes up? That’s your money story talking.

#moneymindset
#wealthbuilding
#entrepreneurmindset
#moneytrauma

💌 THE biggest self-care tool you can access in 2026?

It’s not the ice bath. It’s not the morning routine. It’s not the supplements.

It’s shadow work.

For a long time, I was a prisoner of what people were triggering in me.

I thought THEY were the problem.
But in the quiet moments, I realised:

I was triggering myself.
It was my shadow.
My unhealed shit.
The things I thought I’d put to bed years ago.

They were seeping out. Demanding I do the work.

@therealshanecav and I have a saying:

Everyone has a really yucky box with 30 dark secrets in it.
All the disgusting parts. The rage. The jealousy. The shame.
We chain it up and shove it in the corner, thinking if we ignore it, it’ll disappear. 🫠

But it doesn’t disappear.
It starts seeping out.

Through your triggers. Through your patterns. Through the same shit showing up over and over.

Until you open the box and look at it, you’ll keep running.

Stop hiding from the fact that you have a shadow. You do. Everyone does.

What is it?
What activated you today?
What made your blood boil?
What criticism stuck with you?
What success made you feel some type of way?

Write it down 📝

The work is in your triggers.
The freedom is in your shadow.
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#shadowwork #innerwork #personaldevelopment #healing #triggers

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The Savage Truth About Money: Why Your Nervous System Is Sabotaging Your Success

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